You don’t agree with it because you probably think I’m saying “Be closed off to people and don’t ever open yourself up to people”. That’s not what I said. I even specified this.
The “Do Not Chase” post is basically saying that you should not be supplicating to anyone. Which basically means that you shouldn’t be putting anyone on a pedestal, chasing them for validation, undermining your worth as a person in the process. It should be internalized that you’re a good person who deserves to be treated the way you treat others (provided you’re a decent person). That’s what I meant.
If you’re chasing, you probably don’t have it internalized that you’re good enough.