A Lover, A Fighter, A Dreamer

You don’t agree with it because you probably think I’m saying “Be closed off to people and don’t ever open yourself up to people”. That’s not what I said. I even specified this.

The “Do Not Chase” post is basically saying that you should not be supplicating to anyone. Which basically means that you shouldn’t be putting anyone on a pedestal, chasing them for validation, undermining your worth as a person in the process. It should be internalized that you’re a good person who deserves to be treated the way you treat others (provided you’re a decent person). That’s what I meant.

If you’re chasing, you probably don’t have it internalized that you’re good enough.

In a nutshell? Go out and meet other women. Right now, your reticular activation system (RAS) is only focused on that girl so in some aspects it seems like she’s the only woman in your life and you think she’s the best it’ll get for you. That’s your mind playing tricks on you and you’re probably projecting qualities onto her which make you like her even more. Take an objective look at everything and realize that she ruined her opportunity to be with a guy like you. Her loss.

I say to go out and meet other women cause you’ll realize that there are women out there tons more attractive than her, with a better personality than her, and won’t give you bullshit like this girl gave you. Billions of people in the world, the possibilities are endless. All you have to do is take initiative to be meeting new people.

Haha you’re too sweet. Thank you :D

WOOP! WOOP! WOOP! SWAG, SWAG, SWAG, COOK, COOK, COOK,

Sorry, lost control there…

thank you though

6’0 ft

• 2. You talked to an ex today, correct?

Why yes I did.

• 28. What was the last thing that made you laugh?

My mom said this CORNY ass line about a camera earlier and then proceeded to burst out into this CORNY ass laugh. I then disowned her as my mom for all of 20 seconds. But that corny laugh had me laughing. She TRULY thought that what she said was absolutely HILARIOUS but no one was laughing with her, which had me dying hahaha

• 38. Who did you last call?

David

• 40. Why did you kiss the last person you kissed?

I actually ran into her at a club. We were on the dancefloor, dancing, and one thing led to another, and lots of kissing and stuff happened. She’s a friend of my friend Sam. I’ve known her for a while and we always had great chemistry. I think it’s also pretty safe to say we both find each other quite attractive. I always knew in the back of my mind that something would happen between us eventually. Maybe she did too.

• 4. Is trust a big issue for you?

I wouldn’t say it’s a big issue. Rather, I’ve seen and done enough to know that ANYTHING could happen no matter what your relationship is like. It’s an existential way of thinking, but it doesn’t stop me from trusting a person. But it prevents me from being bitter if someone does break my trust.

• 9. Is confidence cute?

Confidence is sexy.

• 37. Do you believe in love at first sight?

No. I believe in intense attraction at first sight though. You can’t love someone without knowing anything about them. It would be limerence at best, but even that would be pushing it. Then again, love is a subjective word isn’t it.

• 77. Ever been in love?

Yup. What an experience that was.

Nope. Guys do it too. 

I think it’s on them if they’re gonna get really messed up like that. I don’t necessarily find it attractive if that’s what you’re asking, but I don’t judge a person for wanting to get absolutely sloshed/plundered/shitfaced/steamrolled/hammered/destroyed/axed/absolutely eradicated. 

Too much?

I really like this question. You’re more than welcome to pick my brain more often.

I guess the only thing besides training that frustrates me is my lack of the ability to live independently. I’m beyond sick and tired of relying on people for things whether it be rides cause I don’t drive, or my parents lending me money cause my job hasn’t paid me yet, or the fact that I have to share a room and have virtually no privacy. I hate being at the mercy of other people. I realize that some of these things like not driving and not having money is my own fault so I have to deal with it and get my shit together. Not to mention I actually really dislike my job right now and it doesn’t pay well at all.

I know what I actually want to be doing with my life and how I want to be living it, I just don’t have the means yet. But just because I lack the means right now doesn’t mean I should write it off and not work towards it.

Thank you for this question.

Damn. This is a tough question, especially considering I follow lots of attractive women/lots of attractive women following me. But off the top of my head and in no particular order, Erin, Caitlyn, Jess, Alex, Vanessa, Martha, Emily, Niamh, Kristie, and that’s all my brain’s bandwith can handle for now but there are many others.

What’s funny is that I think most of the people I just mentioned already know this.

But damn, cat’s out of the bag now huh, hahahaha

But you’re anon. “Holla @ me” un-anon. I won’t bite

It’s always an awesome feeling to know that someone enjoys your music taste. Thanks :)

Wow man….you’re completely welcome. I’m glad to have been of such help. And let me know bro! I go to Xsport which is in the Garden City area. Let me know if you’re ever close to there and we can do work!