“What’re you doing next week?” Her: “Nothing really etc”
“Cool. I’m going to _____. Come with me punk.”
^something playful like that. Asking her if she wants to go with you puts her on a pedestal and basically makes her seem higher value than you. If you tell her she should join you, it sounds more casual and a little more exciting. Almost like you’re going on some kind of little adventure or something. But when you ask her to go somewhere with you so formally, it almost seems like you’re seeking her approval. She’s got to know that you’re not gonna die if she doesn’t come with you. And if it turns out that she’s busy that day, then tell her she owes you now and she’ll have to take you out ;)
